Saturday, February 12, 2005
I went to www.fupei.com, encountered this question in the forum "who wants to marry u?" I think the question is kinda off... sorry Edward, I'm modifying it... into "Who are you looking for, if you're looking at all?"I want (not need, mark the difference...) someone who gives me my own space... someone who lets me be who I am n who I'm working towards being... someone who appreciates me for who I am... all my pluses n minuses... someone who appreciates my independence, stubbornness, and my passion for learning...
Someone who can stand my arguments... who can "conquer" me... who can make me smile a lot (as if I'm not already!)... someone intelligent (in many aspects of life), someone who knows what he's doing... who has principles and stand up for what he believes in...someone who doesn't wanna be waited upon...but have tendencies to serve rather than be served...
Someone who treats me like an adult, but knows when n how to treat me like a princess ;) (cuz all girls are princesses) Someone who knows when I'm serious or when I'm just foolin around... Basically someone whom u're comfortable being yourself with...
I think true love is when u can accept n love the whole being of the other person... with his/her faults ... u have to be able to love that person when he/she is sick or not as beautiful/handsome as they use to be... cuz u never know what will happen in life... say the next morning u wake up and u can't walk...paralyzed... will your bf/gf/husband/wife still love u n stand by u??? when u're all wrinkled and ugly and not as much fun as u use to be... will he/she stand by u n love u thru it all???
These are the questions u must ask when u must decide whether or not to marry/keep him/her...
There's a saying that goes something like this "don't marry someone you can live with, but someone u can't live without" I think it's simply wrong... if u can't live without him/her... how r u gonna carry on living when he/she dies??? u have to be able to live with or without him/her... besides, u've been living all these yrs without that person...
for me, it's like this... I'm happy as I am... with my life, with myself... and if I end up with the "right" man, he's going to complete my happiness... but he's not going to be my reason for me being happy... he's gonna make me feel happier... but I will still be happy with or without him...
see, this way, you don't attract guys who take advantage of u..cuz u can simply say "the hell with ya... u ain't treating me like shit!" u're not someone they can mess with... when u're secure n happy, u will be happy n blessed... n u will say "la vie est belle!"
Love is about bringing out the best in each other... acceptance and working things out... being a better person voluntarily...
I think I've found what I'm looking for in a man in J... but I'm still young and I'm not ready to commit (marriage-wise)..I've got a longgg way to go... so I'm just gonna live life as best I know how n enjoy every moment of happiness... cuz... life is a gift from God...it's a blessing. Things will work out for the best... I believe that.
si Monyet @ 2/12/2005 09:29:00 PM
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